🧠 Key idea: Stop thinking like a “striver” and start thinking like an architect. Don’t fight your nature. Change your environment and incentives.
The 4 Laws (quick view)
Tactical summary (Build vs Break)
| Phase | To build a habit | To break a habit (inversion) |
|---|---|---|
| Cue | Make it Obvious (visual triggers) | Make it Invisible (hide triggers) |
| Craving | Make it Attractive (bundle with fun) | Make it Unattractive (reframe the cost) |
| Response | Make it Easy (reduce friction) | Make it Difficult (add steps/barriers) |
| Reward | Make it Satisfying (track streaks) | Make it Unsatisfying (public accountability) |
✅ Prompt: What is one micro-habit you can install today that takes less than 120 seconds? Don’t overthink it. Start the streak.
Building good habits in 4 steps